Dear Baby™ Wants to Know
Dear Baby™ Wants to Know is a continuation of my brand addressing relationship needs, wants, and desires. Feel free and uninhibited concerning your replies to the question presented.
Non-Physical vs Physical Intimacy
Which intimacy carries the most weight and why?
Greetings and salutations everyone!
ReplyDeleteHello Mr. Givens
ReplyDeleteSo what's your take on tonight question?
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion, Non-Intimacy carries more weight. Learning and knowing your partner is the cornerstone in the foundation of a relationship.
ReplyDeleteHello Curtis
ReplyDeletePhysical intimacy is easy and somewhat of a impulse.
ReplyDeleteEmotional intimacy is a deeper and valued longer. It's a connection.
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Hello Tasha.
ReplyDeleteHello Doris
DeleteSo how can couple build emotional intimacy?
ReplyDeleteHello Ms.Davis!
ReplyDeleteHello Ms.Barner!
Dates. Long conversations about any topic.
ReplyDeleteIt took me years to realize non intimacy carries more weight because you get to really know each other, you truly fall in love with your mate for who they are, not because the sex was good that is not love.
ReplyDeleteNon-physical intimacy is a great challenge though
ReplyDeleteIndeed it is.
DeleteI believe it's much deeper than knowing your partner's favorites. It's knowing them and sometimes recognizing attributes they can't see.
ReplyDeletePlease explain Mr. Givens. I agree Tasha. It took me a minute to recognize non-intimacy's true value.
ReplyDeleteAnybody can get a hump or two or three. It's fun too but not solid once you get off. Non-physical help you search and become familiar with ones self.
ReplyDeleteI agree Doris, when someone can show you things about yourself that you did'nt notice is special.
ReplyDeleteAmen!!
DeleteYes knowing things about the other person besides if they like their nipples licked is more lasting. To know I liked my head rubbed means a lot.
ReplyDeleteVery special.
ReplyDeleteI like that Mr. Givens, lol. "It's fun too but not solid once you get off." That is so true. Sex no matter how good gets boring after awhile.
ReplyDeleteLol Ok Curtis
ReplyDeleteRight!
ReplyDeleteKnowing when and how far to push your partner is beautiful. It means their needs, wants, and desires are a priority. It's great when it comes to giving gifts too.
ReplyDeleteIt really is!!!
DeleteIn the long run conversation, dates, opinions, and relationship means you are social. Good, bad or otherwise.
ReplyDeleteI agree Curtis.
DeleteAmen Ms.Barner!
ReplyDeleteI read that a man was upset because his wife didn't like the six figure car he brought her. Friends and family thought that was crazy. If he knew his wife, he would have never brought her the car. She told him he got it for himself.
ReplyDeleteHe was being selfish!
DeleteNeeds, priority, wants and desires are great challenges to meet. It's not for the faint-hearted.
ReplyDeleteShe's right! He did get it for himself.
ReplyDeleteGood old conversations can't be replaced, if people learn to listen, I believe relations will get better between couples.
ReplyDeleteLearn to listen don't be in a hurry to be defensive , not so much to the point you don't even hear what your partner is saying.
DeleteTasha where you at?
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ReplyDeleteI must disagree Doris ,I believe in finding ways to make sure sex is not boring, but dates & conversations last longer when you sit back and reminisce together or you remember that sweet thing he said or did that make you smile out of the blue.weeks later.
ReplyDeleteTrue! True! True!
DeleteYa'll conversate a little faster then me my phone moves slow im catching up but im here. Lol
ReplyDeleteTasha, don't get me wrong, the sex must be on point, but knowing the partner's pet peeves will save a lot of grief and make dates, and conversations more pleasant.
ReplyDeleteDisagreements com with relationships but it should be balanced. That's where good conversation comes in.
DeleteIt does a couple no good if all they have in common is sex.
ReplyDeleteI agree. No depth. No imagination. No
DeleteI like finding things out about myself from a different point of view. Good, bad or otherwise.It helps me grow to be a better person
ReplyDeleteAgain I agree Doris.
ReplyDeleteYes. I believe non-physical intimacy promotes that personal growth.
ReplyDeleteI believe balance is the key. Too much of either can knock a relationship of balance. There is no room in a relationship for lack.
ReplyDeleteRight! Balance should be a requirement
DeleteIndeed
DeleteI also believe you both have to open up , to each other to find out and learn who it is we are dealing with.
ReplyDeleteThat helps. Along with understanding. Empathy. Love and self-worth.
DeleteAmen Tasha!
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ReplyDeleteThere is a definitely need for trust. You can't have true intimacy without it.
ReplyDeleteWhat about carrying past relationships to your next? How can you progress in what you have when you or your mate holds on to pain from the past?
ReplyDeleteWith understanding it can resolved
DeleteIt'll be a challenge but it'll worth it it because of positive growth
DeleteIndeed Curtis.
DeleteI love this topic! There should be a part II
ReplyDeleteOkay, lol.
DeleteThis was great conversation I love grown folk chit chat.lol I agree Curtis.
DeleteIt's enlightening....yes I agree
DeleteI agree Mr. Givens.
ReplyDeleteThat's a good topic question Tasha.
ReplyDeleteIt's time to say "good night." I would like to say "thank you and God Bless."
ReplyDeleteUntil next time.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed you both Got to get ready to Thank my Father for his Son inthe morning.GN
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