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Unwritten Rules and Boundaries
Should unwritten rules and boundaries be
standard for ALL relationships or should they apply only to those that are in
committed relationships and how do you deal with any double standards?
Hello Curtis
ReplyDeleteGreetings an salutations!~
DeleteGood evening everyone!
ReplyDeleteGood evening Ms.Barner!~
Good evening Ms.Davis!~
Let's get started!~
I think the unwritten rule applies individually.
ReplyDeletei think it applies to both committed relationships or otherwise.
ReplyDeleteI think unwritten rules and boundaries should be standard for all relationships. Committed and or friendships.
ReplyDeleteI agree. It's a respect that should felt.
DeleteIt should be felt and in a relayed sentiment.
DeleteTrue Curtis what is a unwritten but important rule you live by?
DeleteLove Tasha!
DeletePray when uncertain.
DeleteWeigh in folks please.
ReplyDeleteI will respectfully agree with you both. Each relationship is different, but there has to be some boundaries. Good evening Mr. Givens and Tasha.
ReplyDeleteIf they are crossed is there any comeback from it with reasonable forgiveness
DeleteThat depends on people involved, for me in relationships between friends, I will never cross the lines and mess with or start a relationship that could possibly end our friendship.
DeleteBeing friends matters..
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DeleteFriendship is so important
DeleteUnwritten or not a mutual respect for one another helps keep boundaries in there proper place. Without respect or regard things will be in chaos fairly fast.
ReplyDeleteMy questions is how do we deal with the double standards? I believe honesty is the key element in setting the tone in relations. And when boundaries are broken they should be addressed and taken seriously.
ReplyDeleteI agree Doris
DeleteTrue. There is a double standard but there is a shift where ladies have opportunities and options that weren't there before. fellas you don't have lame excuses anymore. Truth is required
DeleteGood, bad or otherwise.
DeleteThat is so true Mr. Givens. I wish all humans felt this way.
ReplyDeleteamen!!
DeleteSo how should males deal with broken rules of engagement because I am at a loss?
ReplyDeleteBe the leader we were called to be.
DeleteYou answered my question before I even asked it, lol.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry, I'm a little off tonight.
ReplyDeleteWe need to be men led by God
DeleteWe can't be affective without him.
DeletePreach! God needs to be in it.
DeleteAlways. We've gotten away from that or use HIM at our convenience.
DeleteYes, people do that and normally the ones that do actions don't match there words. It's about going to God and discover ourselves. Only then should we look/pray for a mate. Only then will a person will be ready, and the unwritten rules and boundaries will be appropriate.
DeleteTotally agree Doris
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ReplyDeleteSo what are some of your boundaries and unwritten rules? Your standards of course.
ReplyDeleteState what you need and be transparent. Its not as easy as it sounds but it can be done
ReplyDeleteAmen To that Curtis GOD IS NEEDED IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS. IF PEOPLE REALLY PUT GOD IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS, THEY WILL BE MORE CONSIDERATE OF ALL INVOLVED.
ReplyDeleteYes! Yes Yes!
DeleteTeach it Tasha. Say. It. Again.
DeleteBe it friendship or relationship.
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DeleteTrue indeed Curtis.
DeleteMy phone is freezing up sorry if Im commenting late.
ReplyDeleteBoundaries: I had one woman call me a 11pm to ask me about my best friend. I was so angry that she thought she the authority to do so. I call me friend the next day. And explained to him, if I had been that disrespectful he would have but me in my place right then. Double standards, SMH. I'm sorry, tonight there is no sugar coating.
ReplyDeleteamen!
DeleteSometimes it will take a deep breathe to get emotional things off your chest and out of your spirit
DeleteWe weren't in a relationship, yet she thought she could come at me any kind of way. Needless to say, she didn't do it anymore, lol.
ReplyDeleteTrue Doris In me and my bestfriends relationship ,she and I agreed not to get into each others romance life because the little things our mates do to upset us, might make us be a little judgemental which will soon cause us to be uncomfortable in each others space.
ReplyDeleteVery good!!
DeleteWow, I need to calm down, bad grammar, lol.
ReplyDeleteLOL!! Understood!
DeleteHad she had respect or regard it would have been handled differently
ReplyDeleteYep.
DeleteThat is a good topic for another discussion. Oppisite sex best friends.
ReplyDeleteTasha you trying to get me to catch a case, lol.
ReplyDeleteBottom line Love of self sincere Love of self carries one a long way. It will demand respect and regard
ReplyDeleteThe stories I could tell being the best friend of a popular male, lol.
ReplyDeleteThank you Ms.Davis!
ReplyDeleteThank you Ms.Barner!
Thank you all that weighed in God Bless and good night.
True Curtis I don't see you Doris acting like some female bestfriends , I maybe wrong but I don't think any woman wants their man sharing more with their female best friend myself I feel like when it comes to the heart sure it's ok to have opposite sex friends but your woman or man should be the one you run to.. That is my Written and unwritten rule.
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